Ni 2-na: Dik famkim tumna hi hma kan sawn theih loh phahna a ni fo!

Ni khatna ka ziah atang khan ka reh leh vang vang a; mimal thila ka zin vangin ziahna hun ka nei thei meuh lo! A ni hnihna atan chuan "Dik famkim" (perfect) kan tum lutuk vanga bul kan ṭan phah theih loh fo dan te, kan thlen chin aṭanga hmasawn kan harsat em em dan ka hriat ka lo sawi ve leh ang e.

Note: Ka thuziah ho hi ka lo inzir chhuah tawh a ni kher lo va, ka nun a apply theih rih loh tam tak ka la nei ve tho.

Kum 2015 vel aṭang khan startup company ṭha tak din hi ka lo tuipui tawh a. Thil kalphung pakhat mah hre lovin eng thil thil emaw ka ti ve tawh ṭhin. Ka lehkha zirlai a la nih vang leh dinhmun in a zir loh avangin ka hun ka pe tam thei lo va. Ka duh anga tih chhunzawm theih ka nei ngai lo. College kan han zo va, ka ṭhianpa Joseph-a nen company (Thingpui Software Solutions LLP) kan han din ve rawih mai a. Pathian leh mi duhsakna azarah tluang takin kum 1 dawn kan kal chho ve ta reng mai.

2015 aṭanga tun hun thleng hian idea tam tak kan rilru ah a lo lut tawh a, bul la ṭan loh leh, bul ṭan tawh si chhunzawm theih loh kan nei nual. Rokhawlhna avanga chawlhsan rih pawh a awm tho va. 

Hetiang zawng zawng ka ngaihtuah hian bul kan ṭan theih loh leh kan pam ṭul ṭhin te hi a chhan tam tak chu tih dik famkim kan tum lutuk vang a ni ber. Perfect taka tih tum si, kan thil thiam a la perfect si loh vang hian kan khawmuang leh fo ṭhin.

A pawnlang ah chuan kan thatchhiat vang leh, kha hna kha a ninawm vang emaw tih a awl viau! Kan taima tawk lo na meuh mai. Chutih ruala a chhan ni ber a lang zawk chu, kan thilsiam chhuah te miin a ṭha lo an tih kan hlauh lutuk vang a ni fo.

Eng hna thawk pawh, mistiri, thuziakmi, YouTuber, musician, sawrkar hnathawk, zirtirtu, etc., kan kutchhuak, kan hnathawh te miin a ṭhat lohna lai an hmuh kan hlauh lutuk vang hian kan phur loh phah a, kan khawmuan phah ve fo ṭhin mai thei.

Hna kher ni lo, kan tuina lam thil eng ah pawh perfect kan tum lutuk vang hian kan tui rei lo ṭhin. Middle school leh high school kal lai khan lemziah hi ka tui ve ṭhin a, ka lemziah te a ṭha tawk lo va ka hriat vang in 2013 aṭang khan ka ziak leh tawh lo. Chutiang bawkin blog hi mumal taka maintain ka duh ṭhin a, ka ziak thiam lo ni a ka inhriat avangin ka ziak ṭha peih lo ṭhin. Mi in an lo chhiar a, min lo validate ka hlauh vang in ka ziak ṭha peih lo fo!

I thil tih tum i tih theih loh fo chhan kha motivation i neih tawk loh vang a ni vek kher lo, i thatchhiat vang a ni vek kher lo, midang hmuha ṭhat tawk loh i hlauh lutuk vang a ni ve thei. Chutiang vang mai mai a bul ṭan ngam loh emaw, chhunzawm ngam loh kha a ṭha ber dawn em ni?

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Ni 1-na: I dil chhut nge mi teh i hrat? (Are you curious or judgemental? )

"Be Curious. Not Judgemental" , Walt Whitman-a kamchhuak a ni a; ka hun tawn mek nen a inmil em avangin ka rilru ah a cham reng mai a, ka hriatthiam dan ang ang in ka han sawi ve ang e.

He quote hi Ted Lasso series ka en atanga ka hriat a ni a, ka han google nghal vat a, keimah ka in en let a, ka dik lohzia a rawn lang nghal chuai chuai mai! Ka dilchhut emaw ka tih mek lai hian mi teh (judge) ka duh vang zawka zawhna zawt thin hi ka lo ni reng em? Ka inzawt nasa khawp mai a, hemi chungchanga mi thuziah pawh ka chhiar kual nual a. I lo hlawkpui ve takin, ka han share ve ang e.

A awlsam zawk nan : curious = dilchhut , judgemental = mi teh or mi teh hrat 

Kan curious a nih chuan thil thleng kan hmachhawn reng reng hian a chhe lam turah kan ngai nghal ngawt lo! Kan judgemental anih ve thung chuan a chhe lam hawi zawng a ni turah kan ngai nghal tlangpui! 

Curiosity hi chu thil hriatchian duh vanga ngunthluk taka zawhna kan zawhfiah hi a nih mai hmel a; Judgement erawh hi chu sawi theih thui tak a awm ang!

Mi kan judge duh vang a zawhna kan zawhfiah hian keimahni ngei pawh hian kan va judge dawn tih kan hre kher lo vang; ama'rawhchu, kan tih ṭhan tawh thin avangin kan lo judge leh zung zung mai ṭhin. Keimahni hi kan judgemental viau in kan inhre lo fo reng a ni!

Tin, judgement hian lanchhuah dan hrang hrang a lo nei ve hrim hrim bawk in ka hria. A chang in, "thudik ka hre duh mai a ni" tih vangin zawhna ṭul lo tak tak kan zawt fo thin. A chang chuan fing ber ni a inhriatna avangin mi thil tihsual lai kan chang a, kan hmuh fuh hma chuan zawhna thuk zawk kan zawt zel a, dilchhut satliah emaw ni a kan inhriat lai hian kan rilru dik lo lutuk vang a lo ni fo ṭhin. Bum nih kan hlauh lutuk vang hian zawhna ṭul lo tak tak kan zawt a, mi kan judge leh mai ṭhin. 

Judgement hi kan ṭhian ṭha, kan hnungdawl tu emaw kan ti ṭhin. A ni lo. Kan hmelma lian tak zawk a ni. Mihring tu te mah hian teh nih kan duh lo. Ṭul lo taka teh kan nih reng hian min ti luhlul sauh zawk fo!

Curiosity leh Judgement hi thil inang khat a nihna lai tam tak a awm a, an danglamna chiang tak pakhat chu - i curious chuan rilru zau tak in zawhna i zawt ang, i judgemental anih chuan a chhanna tur hre sa ni awm tak in zawhna i zawt ṭhin. A chhanna chu thil ṭha lo lam anih i rin vang a ni chek bawk!

Kan curious vang a zawhna kan zawh hi chu kan hriatloh tak tak vang a zawt kan ni ṭhin. Mi judge kan duh vanga kan zawh erawh chuan a chhanna tur kan hre sa vek tawh in kan inhre fo!

Kan curious chuan uluk takin chhanna kan ngaithla a, fak tur kan zawng a, kan mi biak te nen inpawh takin kan inbe ṭhin.

Curiosity chu a neutral, judgement chuan awn lam a nei sa ṭhin.

I nun nen han en tawn la, i ṭhiante lakah te, i thawhpui te lakah te, i ngaihzawng te lakah te i awm dan ṭhin ngaihtuah la, i curious nge i judgemental zawk le?

Kei chu ka judgemental! 

Ka tih tawp hma in thu tawi te kan belh ang e:

I thil duh i neih theih loh chang te,
I thil duh loh a lo thlen chang te,
Nang aia thil ti ṭha leh thiam zawk an awm chang paw'n,
Be curious. Not judgemental.

"Aw" tih aia "Aih" tih chhanna i dawn tam zawk a,
A chhanna tur chiang taka i hriatsa thil a awm paw'n,
Be curious. Not judgemental.

I nunah hmasawn hlei thei lova i inhriat chang te,
I rilru a thil chhelam zawng i ngaihtuah changte a awm paw'n,
Be curious. Not judgemental.









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Ni 100 thuziah

Ni za (100) inhlawh (MGNREGS) ang deuh khan ni za thuziah ka han ti ve teh ang ka ti ve thla rawk chu ania!

Kan pu hian a blog ah hian 100 Days of Writing bul a rawn tan a, ka hunawl ah hian ka chhiar sak ve zeuh zeuh a; a ziak tha thin khawp mai!

Chumi zulzui chuan, hei, ka blog ah hian Ni 100 Thuziah ka han tan ve dawn chu a ni a, ka huphurh khawp mai!

Tin, ka blog hi English hian ka ziak leh zeuh zeuh a, he Ni 100 Thuziah series erawh hi chu, thuziah tur ka hriat hnem zawk nan Mizo vek in ka ziak mai ang e.

Hei hi ni khatna la ni lo se, a khuhhawnna ni chauh rawh se aw!
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